Women’s Bible study started yesterday.
I made it there *almost* on time.
Half-way through, my baby was brought to me from the nursery.
So it was with full hands I went to pick up the other two at the end of the study.
I watched other smiling mommies looking through the window at their little ones. Little hands reaching, little toes standing on their tips. It was crowded and busy and happy.
And then there were my two.
Olivia came willingly enough. However, she refused to hold her brother’s snack trap for me. Until I started counting to three in a rather serious tone. Then she proceeded to whine and cry and hit me with said snack trap and throw a general fit.
At least I thought it was a fit. But compared to what I was about to witness, it was sweet obedience.
I called for Benjamin.
He saw me.
He stared.
He refused to budge an inch.
I finally grabbed him by the arm.
He wrenched his arm away.
I grabbed him by the ear.
We got about five feet and I realized I still had to pick up the diaper bag.
I let go of Benjamin and proceeded down the hallway. I expected my children to follow me. I didn’t realize until after I was done with my lengthy conversation with the nursery worker that I was short one child.
I headed back to the toddler nursery. I found him in a corner. Looking up at me through a furrowed, stubborn brow.
I grabbed his ear.
Olivia was still throwing a fit. But it was nothing compared to Benjamin’s.
And we walked out of the church, through the parking lot, and to the van that way.
I should add that I was limping. From a running injury. With the two crying children, the baby hanging off one arm, the 50lb diaper bag off the other.
And all this with a smile on my face.
Why?
Because the Bible study was called Wisdom for Mothers.
And I knew I was in the right place.
love it. sounds so much like me, with an extra child of course.
that was my monday, too, only our bs is detox themed. and it was my 3yo pitching the bigger fit and refusing to help mama, and the almost3yo crying b/cs i wasnt holdung HIM instead of the baby!
hugs!
my at-the-time-nearly-4.5-yr-old did that to me when i was 8 months pregnant. at the shops. in the middle of a bookstore. i had to drag him out kicking and screaming and then sat on a bench while he threw himself around.
then i called my husband to pick me up because i didnt think i could manage to get my own whale-sized self and a tornado of angry screaming preschooler onto a bus and home with no injuries.
i am so glad he hasnt done it since the baby was born.