There are times when a sob will catch me off guard. My throat will close and my eyes will burn. I bite my tongue and swallow my tears.

There will be a time to grieve.

But I refuse to do so while she still lives.

And she does yet live.

It’s a weak, anxious, restless, disorienting, exhausting existence*, but she’s still here.

And so I resolve to enjoy her.

I will grieve later.

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*the opposite of these would make great prayers. Strength, peace, rest, clarity, and energy. Thank you. Your prayers have meant so much to me.